He's married.

It was bound to happen…

"Stuck in a marriage and looking for a woman in the same situation.
Easy going, not pushy, self-employed as an IT consultant. Looking for a female friend who is open to sharing ideas and desires.
If you want my picture just ask."

Sweet, isn't it? Like opening a Hallmark card. In the Hallmark in hell.

Username: entel. Message? Very simple:

Subject: Re: Hi

like to have sex?

Yes, that was his message to me, in my inbox. Nothing else. 

I suggested he try conversation first, maybe his name, maybe some class? If not, I suggested he find a hook-up site, NOT one geared towards people approx 50 who are looking for casual relationships, serious relationships, marriages, friends....nowhere on the site do I see the profile option 'just sex, please'. If that's what you want, you can feel free to work it out with someone. But don't pop onto my page & message me like this. You are a fool.

Grammar issues.....

Now, I don't care about perfect grammar, punctuation, I make mistakes. I probably just made one in that sentence! I end sentences in prepositions because I like the way the sentence sounds. But please, for the love of all things holy & educational, check your profiles before hitting 'save'???
(please note, I did not cut & paste from anyone who appeared to be speaking English as a second language. That would not be cool. These are all American dudes who just don't use spell check!!)

  ,, me 43 single, no kids , NEVER , married,,, a pisces , loves fish, and greece in the summers, ,hyacinth macaw here ,, must love birds

JUST ASK I AM A GREAT GUY.I LOVE FINE DINNING AND I AM A FORMER CHEF .MY BAGS WERE PUT OUT IN THE TRASH AND I HAVE A CLEAN SLATES







very easy-going and esy to talk too I can be a good talker and great listener, depending on the situation , I don't fret the small stuff.

 love to find older women for peace and good time 

And this one? Just bad manners. Work it out with the girl or break it off. Just my take:







 I”m from guyana, living in jamaica with a girl friend, who is never home 24/7 .looking for a friend, leading to long term relationship

Ardent lover

Yes, that is his profile name. And his profile is a picture of his abs.. Enough said. There's nothing wrong with a nice physique, but is this all that there is?

There are no words. Only images.

The classy pervert...

A direct approach:

"I’m going to break the trend of perverted guys that don’t know how to introduce themselves to a pretty lady... So here’s my introductory email – no pictures of my junk, no comments about how badly I want to give it to you doggy style, and no misspelled words!.. although I’m only looking for a casual sex relationship, I’m far from a disgusting pervert. I am looking for fun.. something casual easy.. no drama, but respectful. Where we might actually have some cool, smart things to talk about and have an interesting night... Sound like something that you are interested for?"

No, no it doesn't sound like something I would be interested for…

You have to give him credit for just stating what he wants however, compared to the people online that are full of absolute crap. In the last 48 hours I have been approached by literately three men who have said that they're fighting-  or rather keeping peace - over in Kabul, two men that list their home as New York... until I got talking to them, and then they began to explain their way out of the fact that they do not live in New York. But they do visit, used to live here, plan on living here, etc.

Why IS honesty do difficult for some people ? 

Are these the modern woman's choices? Admitted perverts, or complete liars? I still don't think so, I'm still glass half full. Call me crazy. I believe in love.