am I a well-trained woman??

A widower with 2 children on the site put the below as his 'what I am looking for in a woman.'
This doesn't seem to be uncommon. I have seen men request a woman that cooks and cleans, a woman that can be a good mother to his children, a woman who keeps the house, a woman who contributes her fair share to the bills. Now, taken on their own, maybe each of these are reasonable qualifications that some women might do naturally. but to put them on a dating website makes it feel to me that these men could just as easily be hiring house help on Craig's List. This is 2014. Perhaps men should care more about the character of a woman; chemistry, intelligence, compassion....I don't want to feel like I'm hired help. I have my own house/kid/dogs to take care of, thank you. And I'm not sure that I like the term well-trained. To be fair, I've heard many women talk about training their men. I don't like that either. We are not going to obedience school here, or sending our men there. This is supposed to be romance. Partnership. Love. Friendship. Whatever a person joined the site to find.

I know that I personally didn't join it to be someone's trained woman.

About the one I'm looking for...

i am looking for a well trained and loving woman who is also caring as well.I like a clean house and I will not live with anyone without sharing the bills.

Profiles that truly confuse me.

Happy person, no drama, romantic and gentlemen. (this was a woman looking for women...where does the gentleman component come in?)
 

 I Love to give the women I meet as much sexual pleasure as I can every time we meet! (yes, that is all his profile states.)

I'm fun, love to take long drives, eat food, and I have a pulse. I am alive. (this is a nice quality in a man, a pulse...but is that all there is?)

I love music ,videos ,games I love crabs & fishes. (this just worries me in general...)


'Im a very hard worker, open maiden, easy going. (Iron Maiden fan, perhaps??)


Little bit tall, cool, shy, lol, people say am caring lol, but i know am Honest, kind,and truthful always straight lol, and not cunning, lol (too many lol's and aren't foxes cunning? what does this mean?)


 hi im joe well what can i say im easy goin love movies old cars nice settings nice romantic dinners and also love to find a sweet mature woman that loves a younger man say age 58-78.(he is 50. While I'm all about older women/younger men....78? somehow that feels wrong...)