Lessons in profile pics

Okay one quick note for tonight. If I could give a bit of advice to men online; here it would be: if a woman says that she wants to deal only with people in her general geographical area,  please respect that. Oh, and for your own sake please do not contact me if you are 27 yes old, on a website that caters to middle-aged women and men? A little photography instruction if you don't mind? I don't spend much time on my profile pictures ; just a quick selfie on your iPhone is fine, however, please no Santa Claus hats, no photographs in a dirty bathroom mirror and no photographs where you are not wearing a shirt for no apparent reason i.e. you are not at the beach!! Thank you.